This precious gift was an 8-week old English Bulldog we named Leota.
For the next seven years she went everywhere with us. She was the content back-seat driver for thousands of miles as my wife and I tried to maintain our long-distance relationship (for two years I lived in Richmond, Virginia, while my wife studied for her Master’s degree at Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, NC). She was the flower girl at our wedding. She was our biggest responsibility, and our greatest source of pride. She was our first “child.”
Last week, we sent Leota to live with my wife’s cousin in Greensboro. Just like that. An hour and a half drive east, and the Leota chapter in our life was over.
I won’t waste much of your time discussing the reasons behind our decision, but we are confident that we did what was right for the parties involved: Leota, our son, my wife’s cousin, and our unborn son who is due in January. Right or wrong, it still hurts. It’s uncomfortable to make decisions like this. It’s tough to admit that your baby is better off with someone else...and that, perhaps, you would be better off as a result.
How many credit union executives, organizations, and volunteers are struggling with similar situations? At what point do you decide that your “baby” (project, trade association, credit union, seat on a board, business model, etc.) would be better off with someone else? New eyes. New ideas. New passions. Fewer preconceptions. Could a better life lie ahead for all parties concerned?
Uncomfortable decisions are much easier to put off until tomorrow, but who are you harming by doing so?
We wanted Leota to have a better life. We wanted our sons to have a better life. We found the perfect caretaker to help us make this happen.
How should you approach your little piece of the credit union movement?
For the next seven years she went everywhere with us. She was the content back-seat driver for thousands of miles as my wife and I tried to maintain our long-distance relationship (for two years I lived in Richmond, Virginia, while my wife studied for her Master’s degree at Wake Forest University in Winston-Salem, NC). She was the flower girl at our wedding. She was our biggest responsibility, and our greatest source of pride. She was our first “child.”
Last week, we sent Leota to live with my wife’s cousin in Greensboro. Just like that. An hour and a half drive east, and the Leota chapter in our life was over.
I won’t waste much of your time discussing the reasons behind our decision, but we are confident that we did what was right for the parties involved: Leota, our son, my wife’s cousin, and our unborn son who is due in January. Right or wrong, it still hurts. It’s uncomfortable to make decisions like this. It’s tough to admit that your baby is better off with someone else...and that, perhaps, you would be better off as a result.
How many credit union executives, organizations, and volunteers are struggling with similar situations? At what point do you decide that your “baby” (project, trade association, credit union, seat on a board, business model, etc.) would be better off with someone else? New eyes. New ideas. New passions. Fewer preconceptions. Could a better life lie ahead for all parties concerned?
Uncomfortable decisions are much easier to put off until tomorrow, but who are you harming by doing so?
We wanted Leota to have a better life. We wanted our sons to have a better life. We found the perfect caretaker to help us make this happen.
How should you approach your little piece of the credit union movement?